Love is overrated.
F' love.
Just thought I'd put it up there.
No I am not saying that I will never love again. That's just stupid and naive. However, I have learnt from my past mistakes, and I've learnt not to let someone in as easily as the last one.
Here one minute, gone the next. More like here for now, and gone four years later. I won't cry about it, nor will I rant about how stupid my significant other was, because he wasn't stupid. He was awesome, in every way. :)
I do not understand how someone could say, 'I love you, till I die', one day, and end up telling their friends what an arse their 'newly' ex was. If you ex was an arse, why get with them in teh first place?
I believe that we fall in love and fall out of life as life goes on. Sure, there are times when disappointment gets the best of you. It doesn't mean you should just give up and start talking nonsense.
However, I do not see the point in showing how much you love 'your significant other' in every single sentence you speak, every single status change on facebook, every single blog post or every single msn shout out. If you are so in love, stay in love, don't shout it out. People who try so hard to show that they are in love are usually the ones who crave love and are not loved enough.
I've been single for nearly three months, and so far, I've managed to survived. Life is good, and I won't lie, I do feel lonely, but thats life. It has its ups and downs. Its nice to know though that my relationship with my ex beau is still tight, and we have a healthy friendship going on. He's too good of a person to just get rid of from my life. In fact, I'm kind of glad that I've managed to keep a healthy friendship with most of my ex beaus.
I bet you're probably wondering why did this topic suddenly come up, especially since it so unlike me to talk about relationships. Lets just say that, I read too many 'I love you's here and there. My goodness, I don't even say I love you to my significant other on facebook, let alone on my blogs or videos. If you love them, say it to them, not somewhere where every one can read.
Imagine if you were talking about your sex life on 'wall-to-wall' posts on facebook wit your beau. Everyone would read it and think to themselves, 'cheap'.
Embarrassing and pointless right?
So why talk about how much you love each other on wall-to-wall? When people read it, the first thing that would go on their minds(or at least mine) would be 'get a room' or 'please la. just call each other'.
Why cant people just pick up their phones and call each other and just be direct. If you're cheap, just text then. Its only 5cents a text. I'm sure if you love each other THAT much, you wouldn't mind spending on a lousy phone call, just to express how you feel.
Don't get me wrong, I don't mind seeing couples walking around in public, holding hands, hugging or even kissing one another. Its fine with me, as I have the choice to look away. HOWEVER, if its on the home page of my facebook account, or even worst, on my msn contacts name list, I'd go bonkers.
If you have made it this far and you're still reading, I love you for your patience.
I am fairly sorry for those if you feel offended. I do not intend to pin point this rant on anyone in particular.
I will get back to my lameness in a bit. I mean, I'm only human, I do have to rant every now and then.
Oh a quick shout out, to my buds.
Nabeelah.K, Thanks for letting me crash at your place and rant with you.. You and I both needed that, and it was awesome. *thumbs up
Dan.N, cheer up mate, I'll see you on Sat, and dont worry about just now. I still had fun.
Okay, and with that, I shall leave you.
Good night everyone =) I hope you have a wonderful week ahead of you x
